10 Misconceptions About Moms and Going Back To School

by Sandi on September 8, 2010

My friend Kathy sent this to me and I wanted to pass it on for all of us getting ready for Back To School Time.  Enjoy!

Misconception Number 1: Moms miss their kids when they go back to
school

Seriously. I’ve had enough of you by now. Every morning with the “what
are we going to do today, Mom?” is finally over. I’ve had looked at your
face twenty-four seven for the last 77 days. It’s time to go learn
something.
No more asking me about the pool, when is the next snack or if you can
stay up late and watch a movie. It’s over..You’re going back to school and I
get to have a life again. There is a Christmas morning for parents and it’s
called “back to school”.

Misconception Number 2: Moms like to go school shopping.

Are you freaking kidding me? Why do I pay taxes?..so I can rack up a 200
dollar bill at Staples for crap that we have laying around my house in
junk drawers. Why does it have to be new pencils? What’s wrong with the
chewed up, broken strawberry shortcake pencils sitting in the bottom of the
toy box for the last 6 months? And how many subject books can you possibly
need?  What happened to reading, writing and arithmetic. If they added a
couple of things for parents to that list I wouldn’t mind so much..why not
pencils, erasers and vodka …or some Nyquil.

Misconception Number 3: Moms like back to school night.

Why must we do this every year? I got it already. You’re the
teacher, I’m the parent. My kid is either going to be smart or dumb. If he gets a
certain number or colored dot on his discipline chart, he can’t get a prize
from the prize box. Pretty simple stuff. Listen, I’m pretty old school. If he
doesn’t listen to you.you can throw something at him. I don’t care. But I got a
lot of work to do at home and I’m paying a babysitter right now. Plus, I’m
pretty sure you are going to assign some project on wigwams made by
some Indian tribe I’ve never heard of, so I need to get home and start my
research. So, I got it. We’re all here for the betterment of the kids.
Blah Blah Blah. Can I leave now?

Misconception Number 4: Moms like school paperwork.

How many trees are you planning on killing to tell me the same stuff I
had to pay a babysitter to listen to the other night? You know our name,
where we live and our emergency phone numbers. He doesn’t have a
nickname..call him “stinkbutt” for all I care. We don’t have any “special
circumstances” that you need to know about. He lives in a home with two parents who
may or may not like each other at any given time and they will fight. If that
qualifies as a reason he can’t get his homework done on time then he
won’t be able to function as an adult and have a real job so you may want to
“educate” him on that life lesson.

Misconception Number 5: Moms like covering books in that annoying
sticky paper.

What exactly will you be doing with these books that I have to cover
them in a plastic laminate? Do you often teach in the rain? Or while the
children are drinking soda and eating soup? Do you know how long that takes? Has
any parent in the history of education been able to do it without any air
bubbles in it? From now on I’m covering it the old way.brown paper
bags. That way I can cover the books and pack their lunches at that same
time. Who says moms can’t multitask?
PS. Please tell my son if he can’t find his lunch to look in his
science book.

Misconception Number 6: Moms like helping you with your homework.

What? I am scared out of my mind. I’m pretty sure that I forgot
everything I learned in fifth grade by the time I was in sixth grade. I have no idea
what you are talking about most days. I don’t really know my 12 times
tables, I read the cliff notes to all your summer reading and I don’t know how to
conjugate anything but I do know that song “conjuction junction what’s
your function” if that helps at all. And please don’t even say the words
“new math” to me. What the heck was wrong the old one?
Misconception Number 7: Moms can’t wait to pack your lunch every day
until we die
.

I hate doing laundry. Making dinner every night is the bane of my
existence, so making your lunch every day for an entire year, in terms of “mom
fun”, lies somewhere between brushing plaque off the dogs teeth and
scheduling my annual pap smear. Listen, as a child I hated what my mom packed me for
lunch. But, like every kid before me, and every generation to come you
will find a kid to trade with.I’m sure someone likes sardines.
Misconception Number 8: Moms love after school activities.

I don’t know who made up this idea of organized clubs and sports but
they should be the ones in charge of carting your butt around. Don’t get me
wrong. I’m not against all after school programs. I just wish they would offer
it during hours that would work best for me so that dinner wasn’t at
8:30 at night followed by 4 hours of homework. Why not do it on the weekends
and call it “after-hours activities” so mommy and daddy could actually go
out one night and pretend that we have a life of our own. Don’t worry about
us though I’m sure that me and “what’s his name” will be married a very
long time.

Misconception Number 9: Moms don’t mind taking you to school if you
miss the bus.

Your bus comes at 7:10 am …which means that you
should be standing by the door at 7:05 am.  Not eating breakfast ,
chasing the dog around the house or in the bathroom, asking me to check your homework while I’m taking a shower.
Get it together! I don’t like running down the street in my jammies at
7:12 screaming “Please wait”
Misconception Number 10: Moms cry on your first day of school

We do cry but they are tears of joy. I have done my job. I have
successfully kept a human child alive for at least 5 years without doing any major
damage. Motherhood is the hardest job in the world!! Sure, doctors save
lives and CEO’s run million dollar businesses but you teach a kid not
to poop their pants and then you can say you’ve made the world a better
place.”

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